deciphering binary versus gates: <\/p>\n\n\n\n
for everything that there is, there is something that it isn\u2019t. unless there isn\u2019t. (1,2) (1,2,3) in metaphysics this is called plurality (see also: singularity and duality).<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n correspondingly, \u201cas above, so below,\u201d except when it isn\u2019t. (1, 2) (1,2,3).<\/p>\n\n\n\n I will give you a contemporary example: suppose that I identify as trigender: as in \u201cmale, female, *and* neither.\u201d Do you understand now?<\/p>\n\n\n\n this is not a compatible framework with all or nothing, black or white thinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n except for times like these.<\/p>\n\n\n\n this is the incentive for instilling multi generational traumas. whose victims fall to such thinking. \u201cI don\u2019t like this thing you said or did\u201d becomes \u201cI don\u2019t like you.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cwhat if both doors are still open?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is done on purpose and the ritualized practice of it needs to end forever or for at least a very long time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is why I can\u2019t predict or judge your behavior in the grander scheme . Even if I factually dislike you and what you did. I have opinions about everyone and everything like everybody else. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you have three doors in front of you, and you know there\u2019s a goat behind two of them , and that behind one of them is a brand new car \u2013<\/p>\n\n\n\n you open the first door and it\u2019s a goat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n the most common answer to whether you\u2019d want to try your luck by opening one of the other two doors is that you already have a goat and therefore you have nothing to lose, 50\/50 odds or whatever. you might even get a car out of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n let me ask the question another way:<\/p>\n\n\n\n what if instead of two goats and a car, you were lucky enough to pick the door with a goat \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n and behind one of the other two doors is \u201cnot existing.\u201d or behind that door, is another two doors, because that\u2019s how you think , whether it\u2019s your fault or not, and you just fell for that again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Where am I going with this?<\/p>\n\n\n\n be who you are even if you\u2019re not allowed to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2026 unless you don\u2019t want to be. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n The two doors question, \u201cwhich one of us always tells the truth and which one of us always lies?\u201d based on my experience is \u201cyou probably both lie.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n someone under say, age 25, may be a little disinhibited naive or trusting, I avoid people who consistently take advantage of that but you do you. Yes, I fully expect an 18 year old to sign the student loan contract without reading it and so do the predatory scumbags who execute such contracts. And yet I also expect a 40 year old to say \u201cthat looks like a really impractical decision to me.\u201d You\u2019re both right and it\u2019s unfortunate that this is one of the very first independent , unalterable decisions you\u2019re asked to make as a brand new adult leaving the nest. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Now do \u201csigning up for the military at 18\u201d because there are considerably harsher consequences than your credit score and garnishments for regretting THAT wet signature.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Red pill or blue pill? If you know me, I\u2019ll do two pills if that suits you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Be nicer to one another. You need each other sometimes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n An oversimplification of karma:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pay it forward or pay it back. (1,2)<\/p>\n\n\n\n Difficulty level 15:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pay it forward or pay it back, or don\u2019t. (1,2,3)<\/p>\n\n\n\n We never responded favorably to ultimatums.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you intuitively understand this, I assume you\u2019re wherever you need to be right now.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" deciphering binary versus gates: for everything that there is, there is something that it isn\u2019t. unless there isn\u2019t. (1,2) (1,2,3) in metaphysics this is called plurality (see also: singularity and duality). correspondingly, \u201cas above, so below,\u201d except when it isn\u2019t. (1, 2) (1,2,3). 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